Stempel, Rudolph Valentino

Rudolph Valentino Stempel

Birth

Rudolph Valentino Stempel was born February 9, 1929, the son of John Servin Stempel and Therezia (Teriza) Yanick (from Czechoslovakia and then New Jersey.) His brothers and sisters were:

• John Stempel (January 8, 1918 - )
• Patrick Stempel (March 17, 1939 - )
• Veronica Stempel (died young)

Education

Rudy Stempel attended Berne-Knox-Westerlo schools through 10th grade, but received a diploma in 2001.

Military

Rudy served in the United States Army during the Korean conflict. He was on the front line for six months during the conflict.

Occupation

Mr. Stempel is the owner of a small business--Rudy Stempel and Family Sawmill.

Marriage & Children

Rudy married Sheila Rapp, the daughter of Catherine and Walter Rapp, on April 11, 1953, and has five children. Their Children were:

• Catherine Stempel (Married Arthur Appleby)

Gwen Appleby

Christopher Appleby

• Brian Stempel (Married Kathy)
• Sandra Stempel (Married James Kisselback)
• Linda Stempel (Married Paul Gicewicz)

Sarah Gicewicz

Charlotte Gicewicz

• Greg Stempel (Married Tammy)

Mark Conklin (Brother of Allen Stempel)

Allen Stempel (Married Crystal Martin)

• Eric Stempel (1967 - January 6, 1982)

Grandchildren:

• Avery Stempel (Married Rebecca Rifenberg)

Nathan Stempel

Molly Stempel

Rudy Greg Stempel

Great Grandchildren:

• Kaya Riffenburg-Stempel
• Fox Riffenburg-Stempel
• Logan Stempel
• Austin Conklin
• Trevor Stempel

Death

Rudy Stempel died January 30, 2012.

Obituary

Rudolph Valentino Stempel Obituary - Altamont Enterprise - Febraury 2, 2012

Rudolph Valentino Stempel Obituary - Albany Times Union - Febraury 2, 2012

Stempel, Rudolph

EAST BERNE — Rudolph "Rudy" Valentino Stempel, 82. was taken into the arms of our Lord January 30, 2012.

Born on February 9, 1929 in Albany, the son of late John Sr. And Therezia Yanik Stempel. He served in the US Army during the Korean War.

Rudy is survived by his wife Sheila, of almost 59 years; children, Catherine and her husband Arthur, Brian and his wife Kathy. Sandra and her husband James. Linda and her husband Paul. Greg and his wife Tammy; he is also survived by 10 grandchildren and five great-grandchildren. Rudy was predeceased by a sister, Veronika and a brother, John Jr., as well as a son, Eric.

A funeral service will be held at 12:30 p.m. on Friday, February 3, 2012 at the Thompson's Lake Reformed Church, East Berne, followed by interment in Woodlawn Cemetery, Berne. Friends may call prior to the service at the church from 10 a.m. to 12 p.m. In lieu of flowers, help someone in need.

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Home: East Berne, NY Place of Birth: Albany, NY

Date of Death: January 30, 2012 Birthdate: February 9, 1929 Age: 82

Funeral Service: Friday, February 03, 2012 12:30 PM Thompson's Lake Reformed Church, East Berne, NY

Visitation: Friday, February 03, 2012 10 PM to 12 PM at Thompson's Lake Reformed Church, East Berne, NY

Interment: Woodlawn Cemetery, Berne, NY

Biography

East Berne- Rudolph "Rudy" Valentino Stempel, 82, was taken into the arms of our Lord January 30, 2012, after being stricken where he bowled in a league for over 40 years. He was transported by ambulance to St. Peter's Hospital where doctors fought valiantly to save him, but his heart was too tired. Rudy join the Army in January 1951, and served his country on the front lines in Korea as part of the Corp of Engineers. When Rudy was honorably discharged from the Army in 1953, the experience he had while there helped him to get work in the construction industry. After getting married in 1953, he took his life savings and bought a "sawmill" which he used to saw lumber for a home for his wife. A Frenchman he became acquainted with taught him to saw and his sawmill business was in the wing, when he wasn't farming on his father's farm, but the life of a Sawyer was more in his blood than farming. Rudy was a charter member of the East Berne fire company. He served for years as one of the directors of the Kiwanis of the Helderbergs. He was instrumental in building a baseball field on Stage Road on part of his father's farm, where Rudy coached the East Berne Indian Little League team. He will be remembered as being the first Republican to be elected the town government as supervisor in over 40 years. As safety coordinator for the Memorial Day Parade in Berne, he procured the help of New York State troopers to lead the parade. He would sit on the passenger side of the trooper car and people along the parade route would cheer and applaud as he went by. Rudy will be remembered as a workaholic all his life. His sawmill, was his life along with his family. Even as a young husband, he would work well into the night to make a living for his wife and six children. Rudy is survived by his wife Sheila, of almost 59 years; children, Catherine and her husband Arthur Appleby, Brian and his wife Kathy Stempel, Sandra and her husband James Kisselback, Linda and her husband Paul Gicewicz, Greg and his wife Tammy Stempel; Rudy was predeceased by his mother and father, a sister Veronika and a brother John Jr. He was also predeceased by his son Eric. He is also survived by 10 grandchildren, Avery, Nathan and Molly Stempel, Mark Conklin, Allen and Rudy-Greg Stempel, Gwen and Christopher Appleby, Sarah and Charlotte Gicewicz; five great-grandchildren Kayla and Fox Riffenburg-Stempel, Logan and Trevor Stempel and Austin Conklin. Rudy was a one-of-a-kind human being never afraid to lend a helping hand to his neighbor. He will be greatly missed by all who knew him. A funeral service will be held at 12:30 PM on Friday, February 3, 2012 at the Thompson's Lake Reformed Church, East Berne, followed by interment in Woodlawn Cemetery, Berne. Friends may call prior to the service at the church from 10 AM to 12 PM. In lieu of flowers, help someone in need.

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OBITUARY NOTICES — February 2, 2012

"Rudy" Rudolph Valentino Stempel

BERNE — Rudolph “Rudy” Valentino Stempel was an honest man, a straight talker, and a loyal friend. A former town supervisor, he was known for his “salt of the earth” personality, and for his family sawmill.

“He was a true-spirited guy,” said his daughter, Sandra Kisselback. “He was an unbelievable supporter of his family. He was the biggest shoulder to cry on as a father. He helped me so much, and I know he helped our other family members out when they needed it.”

Mr. Stempel died on Monday, Jan. 30, 2012, after collapsing at a bowling alley where he played in a league for over 40 years. He was 82.

His close friend, Rodney McCathran, was there when it happened.

“We were in the fifth frame,” Mr. McCathran said. “He bowled a ball, and it was a right-on hit, but he only got nine pins. Rudy stood there like he always did, like, ‘What in the devil is wrong with that ball?’ So, he turned over and looked to the rack. Then, he turned again, and came back toward the bench. I saw his head leaned-over like, and I looked over, and his knees started to buckle. I came over and grabbed him, and I laid him on the floor.”

His friends brought his oxygen tank over, and got him breathing again. He was rushed to St. Peter’s Hospital in Albany, where doctors fought to save him, but to no avail.

“I guess he had a couple heart attacks at the hospital,” said Mr. McCathran. “They had him stabilized, and then it happened again, and that was it.”

Mr. Stempel was born on Feb. 9, 1929, in Albany, the son of the late Therezia Yanik and John Stempel Sr. He joined the United States Army in January 1951, and served his country on the front lines in the Korean conflict in the Army Corp of Engineers.

But first, he met the love of his life, Sheila Stempel. She had moved to the Hilltowns from Albany, and was living with her Aunt Margaret at the time, she said.

“She ran the telephone office, and we found out there was going to be a dance at the Maple Inn,” Mrs. Stempel said. It was the summer of 1950.

“It was just one of those things: He was there, and we danced the night away,” she said. “We did that most of our lives. Every weekend, we used to go dancing.”

Months later, they were engaged, and he joined the military the following January. He was sent to the front lines in Korea, where he ran a bulldozer, building roads and digging holes for the tanks. Reminiscing about it this past summer, he said he liked the intensity of the work.

“You didn’t have things to worry about,” he said. “Your only goal was just keeping yourself alive. You had your meals and a place to sleep. You took care of yourself and made sure not to get hit. You lived or died. That was it.”

He was honorably discharged from the Army in 1953.

“He went away for almost two years,” his wife said. “He came back, and we got married and started raising a family.” Their wedding was on April 11, 1953.

His experience in the military helped him to get work in the construction industry. After getting married, he took his life savings and bought a sawmill, which he used to cut lumber and build his home.

“A Frenchman he became acquainted with taught him to saw, and his sawmill business was in the wing when he wasn’t farming on his father’s farm,” his family wrote in a tribute. “The life of a sawyer was more in his blood than farming.”

>As a young husband, Mr. Stempel worked well into the night to make a living for his wife and six children. The Rudy Stempel Family Sawmill would eventually grow into a well known and respected local business.

John Egan befriended Mr. Stempel when he heard of the sawmill, and began purchasing lumber from him.

“Rudy was never artificial,” said Mr. Egan. “He dared to speak regarding unpopular truths…He’s going to be sorely missed in our community.”

Though Mr. Stempel was “simple in many respects,” he could speak on sophisticated subjects, Mr. Egan went on.

“He knew hard times, and he knew good times,” said Mr. Egan. “But he never forgot where he came from.”

Dr. Lyon Greenberg, a friend who met the Stempels through his medical practice, remembers Mr. Stempel as an individualist — “beyond what most people expect of government,” he said.

He was an “unbelievable guy — the salt of the earth,” Dr. Greenberg said. “He was a real character, and I don’t know if there was anyone like him.”

Dr. Greenberg, like many others, bought wood from the Stempels.

“Much of the lumber down at my son’s farm came from Rudy,” Dr. Greenberg said. “And, if we needed some special hardwood to do some cabinetwork, like cherry wood, he would cut up a special kind of wood for us.”

Mrs. Stempel remembers her husband as a very hard worker, who was occasionally stubborn.

“He worked, and I did all his bookkeeping, and he didn’t believe in vacations,” she recalled. “If you had an idea that was better, he’d say, ‘No,’ and then the next day, he’d say, ‘Oh I had this idea,’ but he wouldn’t admit to whatever you were saying,” she said with a laugh.

“And you always had to have meals on time,” his wife said. “It was like he had an alarm clock in his stomach.”

Their work took up most of their time, she went on. But then, one day, one of their children fell ill.

“My daughter Sandra had a kidney transplant from my one son, and she started volunteering for the Kidney Foundation. We went to different places in the country, where the Kidney Foundation would have games where you competed. So, she needed company, and we’d go along.”

Mr. Stempel was instrumental in building a baseball field on Stage Road on part of his father’s farm, where Rudy coached the East Berne Indian Little League team.

He embraced challenges. Although Democrats outnumber Republicans by more than 2 to 1 in Berne, Mr. Stempel ran for and was elected supervisor — the first GOP supervisor in 40 years. He ran on the Republican line many times after that. Admiration for his tenacity cut across party lines.

“I think anybody would tell you that, if you tell Rudy Stempel that something couldn’t be done, he would get it done,” said Joseph Golden, a Berne Town Board member.

When snow caved in the roof over his mill a few years back, he vowed he’d rebuild, and he did. Last year, when his mill needed a new part he couldn’t afford, Mr. Stempel went back to using the mill he started his business with a half-century before.

As safety coordinator for the Memorial Day Parade in Berne, Mr. Stempel got the help of the New York State Police to lead the parade. He sat on the passenger side of the trooper car, and people along the parade route would cheer and applaud as he went by.

He was also a charter member of the East Berne Fire Company, and he served for years as one of the directors of the Kiwanis of the Helderbergs. It was there that he met his friend, Mr. McCathran, about nine years ago.

“He was a good man,” Mr. McCathran said of his bowling buddy. “He had sort of a gruff way of talking, and I think people misunderstood him. But he was like a big teddy bear. Just a fine person.”

Friends and family alike will miss him.

“We’ll have to do without Rudy for a while,” Mr. McCathran said of his friend. “We’re going to keep bowling, I think. We’ll bowl for Rudy.”

In addition to his wife of almost 59 years, Sheila, Mr. Stempel is survived by his children: Catherine and her husband, Arthur Appleby; Brian and his wife, Kathy Stempel; Sandra and her husband, James Kisselback; Linda and her husband, Paul Gicewicz; and Greg and his wife, Tammy Stempel.

He is also survived by 10 grandchildren: Avery, Nathan, and Molly Stempel; Mark Conklin; Allen and Rudy-Greg Stempel; Gwen and Christopher Appleby; and Sarah and Charlotte Gicewicz; as well as five great-grandchildren, Kayla and Fox Riffenburg-Stempel; Logan and Trevor Stempel; and Austin Conklin.

Mr. Stempel’s sister, Veronika, died before him, as did his brother, John Stempel Jr., and his son, Eric Stempel.

A funeral service will be held at the Thompsons Lake Reformed Church in East Berne on Friday, Feb. 3, at 12:30 p.m., followed by interment in Woodlawn Cemetery in Berne. Friends may call at the church from 10 a.m. till noon.

“In lieu of flowers, help someone in need,” his family wrote in a tribute. “Rudy was a one-of-a-kind human being, never afraid to lend a helping hand to his neighbor. He will be greatly missed by all who knew him.”

Altamont Enterprise - February 2, 2012

Stempel ran for town board in the most recent election in 2005. The owner of a small business--Rudy Stempel and Family Sawmill--he is married and has five children. Stempel has lived in Berne his entire life except for when he served in the United States Army during the Korean conflict. During the conflict, he served on the front line for six months, he said.

Published in The Altamont Enterprise, Page 2B, 25 Oct 2007 Issue.

Additional Media

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  Mary Stempel Hulaska Obituary - Altamont Enterprise - January 29, 1965
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  Elect Rudy Stempel Supervisor - Altamont Enterprise - November 2, 1979
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  Seedlings: A film grows in the Hilltowns - some shots at Rudy's mill - Altamont Enterprise - February 4, 1988
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  Rudy Stempel - DEC officials ponder how to proceed with dam incident - Altamont Enterprise - August 7, 1997
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  <Rudy Stempel resumes his old rivalry with Zuk for supervisor's seat - Altamont Enterprise - October 9, 1997
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  Rudy Stempel Dam Fines Waived - Altamont Enterprise - April 2, 1998
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  {caption}Rudy Stempel Dam Fines Waived - Altamont Enterprise - April 2, 1998
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  Patrick Stempel Has Heart of Gold - Altamont Enterprise - June 14, 2001
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  Avery Stempel and Rebecca Rifenberg Married - Altamont Enterprise - December 13, 2001
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  Sheila Stempel's 70th Birthday Party - Altamont Enterprise - January 10, 2002
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  Sandra Stempel Kisselback Sage Graduate - Altamont Enterprise - May 23, 2002
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  Caregivers Address Kiwanis - Rudy Stempel incoming president - Altamont Enterprise - May 30, 2002
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  Roughcut Rudy a Rebel - Altamont Enterprise - September 26, 2002
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  Rudy's rough-cut reprieve - Altamont Enterprise - December 19, 2002
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  Rudy Stempel Obiturary - Part 1 - Altamont Enterprise - February 2, 2012
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  Rudy Stempel Obiturary - Part 2 - Altamont Enterprise - February 2, 2012
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  Irene Haluska and Therezia Stempel - Courtesy Rudy and Sheila Stempel
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  Irene Haluska and Therezia Stempel - Courtesy Rudy and Sheila Stempel
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  John Stempel on tractor with Patrick 1953 - Courtesy Rudy and Sheila Stempel
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  John Stempel Senior on tractor - Courtesy Rudy and Sheila Stempel
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  Hilllside by Rudy Stempel's home in Berne - Courtesy Rudy and Sheila Stempel
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  View of Rudy Stempel's original house - Courtesy Rudy and Sheila Stempel
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  View of Rudy Stempel's original house - Courtesy Rudy and Sheila Stempel
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  Puppy at Rudy Stempel's home - Courtesy Rudy and Sheila Stempel
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  Brian Stempel working at the saw mill - Courtesy Rudy and Sheila Stempel
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  Rudy Stempel's Children - Courtesy Rudy and Sheila Stempel
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  Rudy Stempel Saw Mill - 1997 - Courtesy Rudy and Sheila Stempel

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